How to Stop Snoring
Cures, Remedies, and Tips For You and Your Partner
Just about everyone snores occasionally, but if snoring happens frequently it can affect the quantity and quality
of your sleep and that of other family members. Snoring can lead to
poor sleep and daytime fatigue, irritability, and increased health
problems. If your snoring keeps your partner awake, it can also create
major relationship problems. Thankfully, sleeping in separate bedrooms
isn’t the only remedy for snoring. There are many other effective
solutions available.
The causes of snoring: Identify the cause to find the cure
On the same day, one person can sneeze from allergies
while another person sneezes from a bad cold. Snoring is like that. In
other words, not all snoring is the same. Everyone snores for
different reasons. When you get to the bottom of
why you snore, then you can find the right solutions to a quieter, deeper sleep.
People who snore often have too much throat and nasal
tissue, or “floppy” tissue that is more prone to vibrate. The position
of your tongue can also get in the way of smooth breathing.
Evaluating how and when you snore will help you pinpoint whether the
cause of your snoring is within your control or not. The good news is
that no matter how and when you snore, there are solutions to making
your snoring better.
Where does the snoring sound come from?
Snoring happens when you can't move air freely
through your nose and mouth during sleep. It’s caused by a narrowing of
your airway, either from poor sleep posture or abnormalities of the
soft tissues in your throat. A narrow airway gets in the way of smooth
breathing and creates the sound of snoring.
Common causes of snoring
- Age. As you reach middle age and beyond, your throat becomes narrower, and the muscle tone in your throat decreases.
- The way you’re built. Men have
narrower air passages than women and are more likely to snore. A narrow
throat, a cleft palate, enlarged adenoids, and other physical
attributes that contribute to snoring are often hereditary.
- Nasal and sinus problems. Blocked airways make inhalation difficult and create a vacuum in the throat, leading to snoring.
- Being overweight or out of shape. Fatty tissue and poor muscle tone contribute to snoring.
- Alcohol, smoking, and medications. Alcohol intake, smoking, and certain medications can increase muscle relaxation leading to more snoring.
- Sleep posture. Sleeping flat on your back causes the flesh of your throat to relax and block the airway.
Is it just snoring or sleep apnea?
Snoring could indicate
sleep apnea,
a potentially life-threatening condition that requires medical
attention. Sleep apnea is a breathing obstruction, causing the sleeper
to keep waking up to begin breathing again. Normal snoring doesn’t
interfere with the quality of your sleep as much as sleep apnea, so if
you’re suffering from extreme fatigue and sleepiness during the day,
your problem may be more than just snoring.
Don’t let snoring damage your relationship
Is snoring causing a rift in your relationship? No
matter how much you love each other, lack of sleep or poor quality
sleep from frequent snoring can strain a relationship as well as put
your partner’s health at risk.
When snoring is a problem, relationship tension can grow in the following ways:
- Sleeping alone. If you or your
partner snores, you might decide to sleep alone. That only makes for a
lack of physical intimacy and a strained relationship. And if you’re
the one snoring, you might feel lonely, isolated, and frustrated about
something you feel you have no control over.
- Snoring spats. It’s common to be
irritable when lack of sleep is an issue. But try reining in your
frustration. Remember, you want to attack the snoring problem—not your
sleep partner.
- Partner resentment. When a
non-snorer feels they do everything possible to sleep through the night
(ear-plugs, noise-machines, etc.) but their partner does nothing to
combat their own snoring, it can lead to resentment. Working as a team
to find a snoring cure can prevent future fights.
If you value your relationship, make it your priority
to find a snoring cure so you can both sleep soundly. Working together
to stop snoring can even be an opportunity to improve the quality of
your bond and become more deeply connected.
Communicating with a partner who snores
So you love everything about your partner…except
their snoring. It’s normal. Even the most patient amongst us will draw
the line at sleep deprivation. But no matter how much sleep you lose
due to someone snoring, it’s important to handle the problem
sensitively. Remember that your partner likely feels vulnerable and
even a little embarrassed about his or her snoring.
- Time your talk carefully. Avoid middle of the night or early morning discussions when you’re feeling exhausted.
- Keep in mind it’s not intentional. Although it’s easy to feel like a victim when you lose sleep, remember that your partner isn’t keeping you awake on purpose.
- Avoid lashing out. Sure, sleep
deprivation is aggravating and can be damaging to your health, but try
your best to approach the problem in a non-confrontational way.
- Beware of bitterness. Make sure that latching onto snoring is not an outlet for other hidden resentments you’re harboring.
- Use humor and playfulness to
bring up the subject of snoring without hurting your partner’s
feelings. Laughing about it can ease tension. Just make sure it doesn’t
turn into too much teasing.
Dealing with complaints about your snoring
It’s common to be caught off guard—not to mention a
little hurt—when a partner complains about your snoring. After all, you
probably didn’t even realize it was happening. And although it might
seem silly that snoring can cause such relationship turmoil, it’s a
common and a very real problem. If you dismiss your partner’s concerns
and refuse to try to solve your snoring problem, you’re sending a clear
message to your partner that you don’t care about their needs.
Keep the following in mind as you and your partner work together to find a solution to your snoring:
- Snoring is a physical issue. It’s nothing to be embarrassed about. Like a pulled muscle or a common cold, improving the condition is in your hands.
- Avoid taking it personally. Try not to take your partner’s frustration as a personal critique or attack. Your partner loves you, just not the snoring.
- Take your partner seriously. Avoid minimizing complaints. Lack of sleep is a health hazard and can make your partner feel miserable all day.
- Make it clear that you prioritize the relationship. If you and your partner have this understanding, you’ll both do what it takes to find a cure for the snoring.
- Address inappropriate behavior.
Although sleep deprivation can lead to moodiness and irritability, let
your partner know that it’s not okay for them to throw an elbow jab or
snap at you when you’re snoring.
Finding the right snoring cures, solutions, and remedies
There are so many bizarre anti-snoring devices available on the
market, with more being added all the time, that finding the right
solution for your snoring can seem like a daunting task. Unfortunately,
many of these unusual devices are unproven or work by simply keeping
you awake at night. There are, however, plenty of proven techniques
that can help you to stop snoring. Not every remedy is right for every
person, though, so it may require some patience, some lifestyle
changes, and a willingness to experiment with different solutions to
finally put a stop to your snoring.
The first step to solving a snoring problem is to find the cause of
your snoring. Enlist your non-snoring sleep partner to help you keep a
sleep diary
to monitor your snoring. Observing patterns in your snoring can often
help pinpoint the reasons why you snore, what makes it worse, and how
to go about stopping your snoring.
How you snore reveals why you snore
It’s crucial to note to the different ways you sleep and snore.
Sleep positions reveal a lot, and figuring out how you snore can reveal
why you snore. When you know why you snore, you can get closer to a
cure.
- Closed-mouth snoring may indicate a problem with your tongue.
- Open-mouth snoring may be related to the tissues in your throat.
- Snoring when sleeping on your back is probably mild snoring –
improved sleep habits and lifestyle changes may be effective cures.
- Snoring in all sleep positions can mean your snoring is more severe and may require a more comprehensive treatment.
Self-help cures to stop snoring
There are many things you can do on your own to help
stop snoring. Home remedies and lifestyle changes can go a long way in
resolving the problem.
Lifestyle changes to stop snoring
- Lose weight. Losing even a little bit of weight can reduce fatty tissue in the back of the throat and decrease or even stop snoring.
- Exercise
can also help to stop snoring. Working out to tone your arms, legs, and
abs, for example, also leads to toning the muscles in your throat,
which in turn can lead to less snoring.
- Quit smoking. If
you smoke, your chances of snoring are high. Smoking causes airways to
be blocked by irritating the membranes in the nose and throat.
- Avoid alcohol, sleeping pills, and sedatives, especially
before bedtime, because they relax the muscles in the throat and
interfere with breathing. Talk to your doctor about any prescription
medications you’re taking, as some encourage a deeper level of sleep
which can make snoring worse.
- Establish regular sleep patterns.
Create a bedtime ritual with your partner and stick to it. Hitting the
sack in a routine way together can help you sleep better and often
minimize snoring.
Bedtime remedies to help you stop snoring
- Clear nasal passages. Having a
stuffy nose makes inhalation difficult and creates a vacuum in your
throat, which in turn leads to snoring. You can do it naturally with a
neti pot or try nasal decongestants or nasal strips to help you breathe
more easily while sleeping.
- Keep bedroom air moist with a humidifier. Dry air can irritate membranes in the nose and throat.
- Reposition. Elevating your head
four inches may ease breathing and encourage your tongue and jaw to
move forward. There are specially designed pillows available to help
prevent snoring by making sure your neck muscles are not crimped.
- Avoid caffeine and heavy meals within two hours of going to bed, especially dairy products and soymilk.
- Sleep on your side. Avoid
sleeping on your back, as gravity makes it more likely for your tongue
and soft tissues to drop and obstruct your airway.
Stop Snoring Solution: The tennis ball trick
Is sleeping on your back causing you to snore? If so, try the tennis ball trick.
Sleep with a tennis ball (or similar sized ball) attached to the back
of a pajama top or t-shirt. (You can sew or safety-pin a sock to the
back of the pajama top, then put a tennis ball in it.) The tennis ball
is uncomfortable if you lie on your back, and you will respond by
turning on your side. Or wedge a pillow stuffed with tennis balls behind
your back. Soon you will develop side-sleeping as a habit and not need
the tennis balls.
Throat exercises to stop snoring
Practiced for 30 minutes a day, throat exercises
can be an effective way to reduce or stop snoring. Repeatedly
pronouncing certain vowel sounds and curling the tongue in specific
ways can strengthen muscles in the upper respiratory tract and thereby
reduce snoring.
Try the following exercises to stop snoring. Start
slow and gradually increase the number of sets you do. In some cases,
you may be able to combine the exercises with other activities, such as
commuting to work, walking your dog, working out, or taking a shower.
- Repeat each vowel (a-e-i-o-u) out loud for three minutes a few times a day.
- Place the tip of your tongue behind your top front teeth. Slide your tongue backwards
for 3 minutes a day.
- Close your mouth and purse your lips. Hold for 30 seconds.
- With mouth open, move jaw to the right and hold for 30 seconds. Repeat on left side.
- With mouth open, contract the muscle at the back
of your throat repeatedly for 30 seconds. Tip: Look in the mirror to see
the uvula (“the hanging ball”) move up and down.
Alternative remedies for snoring
- Singing – Singing can increase muscle control in the throat and soft palate, reducing snoring caused by lax muscles.
- Playing the didgeridoo –
Thinking of taking up a new instrument? Studies show that learning to
play a didgeridoo (native Australian wind instrument) can strengthen
the soft palate and throat, reducing snoring.
Medical cures and treatments for snoring
If you’ve tried the self-help solutions to stop
snoring without success, don’t give up hope. Medical cures and
treatments could make all the difference. New advances in the treatment
of snoring are being made all the time and the various devices
available to stop snoring are becoming more and more effective and
comfortable. So even if your doctor recommends something that in the
past you found to be uncomfortable or ineffective at stopping your
snoring, that doesn’t mean the same will be true now.
Medical cures for snoring
If your own efforts to stop snoring do not help,
consult your physician or an otolaryngologist (an ear, nose, and throat
doctor, otherwise known as an ENT). If you choose to try a dental
appliance for your snoring, you will need to see a dentist specializing
in these devices.
- Continuous Positive Airway Pressure (CPAP).
To keep your airway open during sleep, a machine at your bedside blows
pressurized air into a mask that you wear over your nose or face.
- Dental appliances, oral devices, and lower jaw-positioners
often resemble an athlete’s mouth guard. They help open your airway by
bringing your lower jaw or your tongue forward during sleep.
- Traditional surgery such as Uvulopalatopharyngoplasty (UPPP), Thermal Ablation Palatoplasty (TAP), tonsillectomy, and adenoidectomy,
increase the size of your airway by surgically removing tissues or
correcting abnormalities. The Pillar procedure is also an effective
surgery in which small plastic implants are inserted into the soft
palate. Scar tissue grows around the implants, stiffening the soft
palate, which stops vibrations that cause snoring.
- New developments. Laser-assisted
uvulopalatoplasty (LAUP) and somnoplasty remove parts of the soft
palate to reduce snoring using lasers or radio frequency signals. These
newer remedies may require further study.
When to see a doctor about snoring
Snoring can sometimes be a warning sign of a more
serious problem. A doctor should evaluate someone who snores for any
underlying medical conditions, other sleeping disorders such as sleep
apnea, or any sleep-related breathing problems. Call your doctor if you
and your sleep partner have noticed any of the following red flags:
- You snore loudly and heavily and are tired during the day.
- You stop breathing, gasp, or choke during sleep.
- You fall asleep at inappropriate times, such as during a conversation or a meal.
To rule out a more serious problem, a physician may
refer you to a sleep specialist for a home-based sleep test using a
portable monitor or an overnight stay at a sleep clinic. If these sleep
studies conclude that the snoring is not related to any sleeping or
breathing disorders, you can discuss different treatment options to
stop the snoring.